Life Fulfillment and Purpose
Three problems and one solution for talking to your younger self
“What would you tell your younger self” is the wrong question. Instead, ask “what would your younger self be proud of you for?”
Life Fulfillment and Purpose
Fulfillment is an accumulation feeling
Finding fulfillment (ikigai) is easy, but most people fail because they’re doing it backwards. Fulfillment follows when you’re doing the right things.
Life Fulfillment and Purpose
Get there fast, or live the experience
Why hike to the top of the mountain when you could drive? Because the effort is where the value lies. Slow down, do the work, live life.
Life Fulfillment and Purpose
Just wake up earlier
If you want to wake up earlier to get more done, then stop talking about it and just do it. Stop making excuses. You never know what might happen.
Conflict
Stop being so judgy
Most people think they’re more objective than average, but everyone is biased. Recognize your own biases to find more peace.
Life Fulfillment and Purpose
The three most important skills in 2026
The three most important skills in 2026 are adaptability, discernment, and communication. I can help you become expert in all of those.
Life Fulfillment and Purpose
Now what?
I help people get from Point A to Point B. But when they get there, my next question is now what? Because every Point B is also a new Point A.
Life Fulfillment and Purpose
Gamify your life for behavior change
When you want to change a behavior or habit, it’s not cheating to gamify your life. Here are several gimmicks to help make that change.
Life Fulfillment and Purpose
Comparing yourself to others diminishes your agency
People think that comparing themselves to others helps them know where they stand. The reality is that comparison reduces agency.
Communication
Intelligence signaling leads to a surprising epiphany about living authentically (maybe)
Intelligence signaling is when you believe one thing and then say something else to show people that you’re smarter than everyone else. It doesn’t work.