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Leadership

Burnout

Multitasking or thrashing? 5 things to help you focus.

Feeling overwhelmed? Multitasking will make it worse because doing many things at once leads to thrashing. Do these five things instead.

By Peter, 1 weekApril 20, 2026 ago
Leadership

Leadership in a Mexican airport parking lot

A protest shut down an airport. Calm, effective leadership got people where they needed to go. Some observations on what went right.

By Peter, 1 monthMarch 24, 2026 ago
Leadership

A pebble in your shoe

Force-fitting someone into a project is like putting a pebble in your shoe. Instead, let them off the hook and focus on the people excited to be included.

By Peter, 4 monthsJanuary 5, 2026 ago
Leadership

People will work with you, against you, or around you

Your team will learn to work with you, work around you, or work against you. As a leader, your behavior drives which they choose.

By Peter, 5 monthsDecember 8, 2025 ago
Leadership

Leaders don’t always know what they think they know

With the “illusion of knowledge,” people feel they understand things they actually have little knowledge of. This destroys good decision making by leaders.

By Peter, 7 monthsSeptember 29, 2025 ago
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Leadership

Great leaders embrace healthy tension

Great leaders don’t fear tension or conflict. They understand the difference between healthy tension and destructive conflict, and they harness its energy in positive ways. Healthy tension exists in that place where you’re pushing the envelope while keeping control. It can exist when one or more positive things may conflict Read more

By Peter, 9 monthsJuly 28, 2025 ago
Leadership

Fix your leadership, not your employees

There’s apparently been a spike in employees taking mental health leave. I can believe it. Work culture has gotten more and more toxic and dehumanizing over the past decade. I’ve experienced it myself, and I’ve heard plenty of anecdotal evidence from the hundreds of clients I’ve coached over the past Read more

By Peter, 9 monthsJuly 24, 2025 ago
Leadership

How the nuance loop kills problem-solving

A nuance loop is when people argue about some irrelevant nuance instead of taking productive action. Here are five ways nuance loops form.

By Peter, 1 yearApril 14, 2025 ago
Courage

Leading with purpose—podcast interview

Leading with purpose is a key topic in Peter’s podcast appearance on the Beyond Your Why podcast. Listen here.

By Peter, 1 yearApril 8, 2025 ago
Leadership

People follow the leader. Act like one.

Data shows that employees will follow the leader’s action no matter what the leader says. Leaders who don’t get this end up frustrated.

By Peter, 1 yearMarch 10, 2025 ago

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