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Leadership

Conflict

What do a 7-year-old, a slice of cake, and a self-destructive project manager have to do with being a better leader?

A 7 year old’s moral relativism, a clash of cultures, and a self-destructive project manager show how a shift in perspective can help us be better leaders.

By Peter, 2 yearsJuly 18, 2023 ago
Courage

Racing to mediocrity: how to rationalize minus-one hiring

When a manager rationalizes hiring the lesser candidate, that’s minus-one hiring. It leads to institutionalized reliable mediocrity.

By Peter, 2 yearsJune 21, 2023 ago
Decisions

Controlling the answers by controlling the questions

Some leaders manufacture outcomes by manipulating data and controlling the questions that get asked. That can lead to spectacular failure, and often does.

By Peter, 2 yearsJune 12, 2023 ago
Communication

To think outside the box, they first must perceive the box

Expecting your team to think outside the box when they don’t even know there is a box will frustrate and baffle you. But there are things you can do to help.

By Peter, 2 yearsMay 17, 2023 ago
Community

Knowing when to break the rules

This post is about roles and responsibilities, both in a team and in society. It includes a sports metaphor and a picture of me wearing an orange safety vest.

By Peter, 2 yearsApril 4, 2023 ago
Decisions

Overcoming magical thinking

Leaders are responsible for overcoming magical thinking before it can sink their team or organization… or the entire economy.

By Peter, 2 yearsMarch 14, 2023 ago
Leadership

What leadership quality do you need to improve most?

There is no single leadership quality that will turn you into a great leader. Self improvement requires self awareness and situational awareness.

By Peter, 2 yearsMarch 7, 2023 ago
Leadership

Why I dislike the term “managing up”

Managing Up is a term that reinforces the channels of authoritarian hierarchy. I prefer to use a term a professional dancer told me: back-leading. Here’s why.

By Peter, 2 yearsJanuary 31, 2023 ago
Leadership

Two questions you need to answer as a manager when taking over a team

Stepping into a management role and taking over a team can be far more complex than many people assume. These questions and exercises can help ensure success.

By Peter, 2 yearsJanuary 24, 2023 ago
The Blue Angels flying in tight formation
Career

Improve your leaders to improve your organization

How one-on-one coaching can help improve your leaders, which will improve your organization in ways that no retreat, training, or reorganization can.

By Peter, 2 yearsJanuary 17, 2023 ago

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